Double Birthday – and some more Jenga

A week after the Light Jamboree in Hackney, the clan reconvened in Godalming to celebrate the 6th and 7th birthdays of Ted and Charlie. The day was blessed yet again with fine weather and we spent the afternoon on the lawn half way up the hillside garden where plenty of comfortable garden furniture had been arranged. The large Jenga set having proved to be such a success in Hackney, Nick and I gave it a second outing. The game has the virtue of appealing to all ages, and young children are not hampered by their lack of years in finding the skill to identify the key block that requires to be moved at each stage. When you find it, you can slide it out easily with care. A quick search on the web tells me why Jenga works. Despite appearances, in Jenga, no two wooden blocks are cut to exactly the same dimensions, which means that the blocks rest on each other unevenly. One of the main tricks of Jenga is locating the “loose” pieces, which are easier to remove without disturbing the integrity of the tower. If a piece is loose, then you know it can’t be load-bearing.

We enjoyed a delicious and authentic South African Brai with accompanying salads from Charlotte’s special cookbook. A chocolate Dinosaur cake and Joel’s fabulous Chocolate Torte followed. We ate, drank and were merry – as birthdays deserve.

In Honour of Lola, Ruby and their Oddparents

On a sunny Sunday afternoon in May a group of extended family and friends convened in a small walled garden in Hackney for a party BBQ.   It was a happy social event with two principal featured activities enjoyed by all: Jenga and Water Bombs.  The occasion was seasoned with delicious offerings from the BBQ and accompaniments prepared and served by Betty and her helper from the kitchen via an improvised hatch fashioned by Dan and Nick that morning.  Dan made a speech and toasted his daughters Lola and Ruby, in whose honour the party was thrown.  A photo call recorded the full complement of their cousins.

Patchwork: Stitchery and other Activities

French time is a patchwork of activities.  I’ve brought over a meli-melo of fabrics, useful lengths and various remnants of stuff to experiment with.  I’ve seen some fetching cushions on the net, the designs are achieved by a combination of patchwork and applique.  I make a moth cushion, and a pheasant one.   I will need a top up of material pieces to complete the third design (I think the nicest by far) and sister Liz will be able to help out there.

Shopping expeditions with Anne and Brigitte allow me to familiarise myself with Cherbourg town centre.  I buy some trousers, a matching jumper and shoes.  Several pairs of shoes for the spring and summer.  Brigitte persuades me to allow her to give me a manicure, a treat in the comfort of my own home.  Anne and I enjoy trips to the Cinema, we see Les Gamins, La Religieuse, Le Temps de l’Aventure, Mud.

Ten of us eat chez Roux on a Saturday evening.  A week later I roast the two legs of lamb I brought over at Easter for the same assembled.  At the end of our stay Francois and Anne depart for their two weeks in the Norwegian fjords, aboard La Fleur de Lampaul.  A few days later we board our ferry bound for England.

Visitors from Dorset

In the week after the family left France  whilst Nick beavered in the garden, I spent some time with Brigitte and Anne.  We went to the gym and we shopped in Cherbourg together, and Anne and I saw two films at the Cinema Richelieu, our gem of a cinema a few minutes’ drive away, with the most comfortable seats imaginable.  They really are like armchairs.  The week culminated in a supper party chez Poulet for Francois’ 61st birthday. 

A few days later we received Paul and Viv for a short stay.  This fixture was long overdue but such is the nature of our busy lives that we had not managed to find a convergingly convenient time slot.  Whilst they stayed with us we walked some of our local terrain, drove across to the west coast to lunch with a former skipper friend of Nick’s after which drove up the west Cotentin.   Nick and Paul took a fishing trip during which they made a good catch of pollack.  That afternoon Viv and I undertook a Treasure Hunt during an open day at the Hougue fort.  We completed the course with full marks.  And that evening, Francois and Anne joined us for supper; we ate fish pie and enjoyed some good French conversation. 

The four of us travelled back to the UK.  The Conchological Society AGM required Nick’s input as Treasurer whilst I chose to stay in Winterborne K, having supper with Maddy and Andrew on Friday night, using Saturday to shop for some fabric remnants for a cushion project, and some plants from Homebase.

On Sunday I worked the low-walled garden which runs along both sides of the garage at the front.  At the end of the afternoon I had cut back bramble and ivy which was clogging the hedge, had cleared weeds and surplus plants and had translocated foxglove plants from pots and the back garden, to the shadiest corner of the garage bed.  Earlier I phoned my neighbour Brian,  to whom I have promised some plants including surplus Aquilegia and perennial Linaria plants.  He came round and we agreed that I would contact him again when we get back from France after our impending spell over there.  Having packed a lot into our long weekend in WK we sailed back to Cherbourg for the remainder of our April - May stint.

Catching up with Folks.

After the mid-March mini-freeze in northern France it was good to arrive home to more clement weather and to find a tidy and warm house. We have a mixed fortnight ahead having concentrated a number of fixtures and fit-ins into that interval.

First up was a conchological weekend with Simon and Shirley Taylor as house guests. If all goes well Simon is soon to be elected to the office of Marine Recorder in the Conchological Society, a job I held for 20 years. He comes to Winterborne K to collect the paper archive and backlog of biological records which need digitisation. As it happens the sitting President Mike Allen is hosting an open day at his new laboratories in Wiltshire, where he processes archaeological finds, principally non-marine mollusc shells, as part of his consultancy business. We go to this and meet up with Bas and Rosemary Payne. I am able to hand over their small consignment of bee orchid plants: a translocation from our French lawn to their Devonian valley garden. Fingers crossed they settle into their new surroundings - I have tried to ensure this by digging the plants with a generous portion of soil to maximise the likelihood that their symbiotic soil fungus will be present.

On Monday night we have supper with Maddy and Andrew – it’s always a pleasure to visit them. Two evenings later I am sitting in Carol’s house for a meeting of our Godalming book group. This is the last time we will meet in her house there as she is shortly to move to an apartment at Kew. I hope she will be able to join us periodically for our gatherings.

On Saturday I join a group of Pam’s yoga students for a day of chanting with Narayani. She is a devotional singer, voicework facilitator and yoga teacher and offers workshops nationwide. This is my second session and I still cannot believe how rusty my voice has become over the years.  After a day of singing my jaw and throat ache and feel stiff.

Nick and I had intended to go to the cinema that evening but decided to defer until Sunday. We went to see Cloud Atlas ; I have been looking forward to this as I much enjoyed the book which I read on Dan’s recommendation.   I am glad that I had read the book first as its format is eccentric and foreknowledge of the novel greatly enhanced my enjoyment of the film. I’m not sure how accessible this film would have been for newcomers to this work of fiction.

On Tuesday Gill and John Watton came for a day visit. Two Westies named Esme and Blossom come as part of the package and after coffee we drove over to Portland and walked along the cliff top at ‘Dragonvale‘ enjoying views of Church Ope cove and the derelict 12th century Norman fortress, Rufus Castle, on the way back.

We lunched at the Lobster Pot cafe on Portland Bill, all opting for a one of their superlative crab salads. We love them because there is always a generous helping of the brown meat, which suits some but not everyone. We drove home by a circuitous route to WK for a cuppa and a hot cross bun.  A bit later we went to The Brace of Pheasants at Plush for dinner. From here John and Gill drove back to Greylake.

Later in the week we meet up with the Palmers and the Derricks for lunch at Ringwood.  Such reunions are intermittent occasions when three erstwhile lads, whose shared schooldays go back six decades, can catch up with each other.  Angela, Carolyn and I have known each other since we met our respective husbands when we were in our twenties, so we too have plenty of natter to exchange as well.

The weekend arrives and so do contingents of children and grandchildren.  We have an early Monday morning ferry to catch and The Old Workshop makes a convenient boarding stage for an early crossing.  Somehow we manage to get everyone to bed and then up early, and we leave the house in reasonable order.  We have a week together in St Vaast La Hougue ahead of us.

When Winter followed Spring

Back in St Vaast and pleased to be just we two, chez nous.  The daffodils continue to bloom sequentially with the earliest variety now in need of dead-heading.  Nick spends time in the garden tracking down the bee orchid rosettes and staking them.  I need to find a good time to lift a few plants which we will give to Bas and Rosemary.  I plan to delay this until a day or two before our return to Dorset.  Whilst the weather is kind Nick manages two fishing trips.  Now is the time for the large pollack that frequent the offshore wrecks and he is not disappointed.  On his first trip, solo, he lands ten very fine fish.   We give six away and freeze 8 fillets.  Two days later Georgy and Francois join Nick and they again catch ten fish between them.

I go shopping with Brigitte one day, and join her and Anne at the gym for a couple of sessions on other days.  I try a Pilates for the first time.   As the first week draws to a close there are rumours of snow on the way.  On Saturday I decide to lift some of the bee orchids for transfer to England and I translocate other plants to add to the two major drifts of plants.  The ground is so wet that this task is achieved much more easily and speedily than this time last year.  In the long term this should make mowing more easy, in addition to lending more coherence to the orchid flower spikes when they bloom.  It is as well that I get the job done with a bit of time to spare.  On Sunday night it snows heavily and a blizzard continues into Monday.  We have at least 30 cms of snow around our house.

As the day wears on it is clear that we will not be crossing the Channel on Tuesday.  We lose electricity in the middle of the day on Monday and this does not return until 48 hours later.  Worse, we then have to contend with 36 hours with no water supply.  Fortunately clean snow can be collected and melted for most purposes, leaving bottled water for drinking and cooking.  We negotiate our way through these privations with minimal discomfort.  Our wood-burning stove throws heat out, our two-ring gas hob enables us to cook, and my stock of candles sees excellent service.  We have an ear to the outside world courtesy of our small transistor radio.  One afternoon we cosy down on our sofas and play a four-handed, four-pack game of Spite and Malice with Ty and Claire.

The northeasterly gale blows onshore, a very unusual occurrence on our coast.  It hits the oyster park and very large numbers of oyster sacks are swept off their trestles and cast up at high tide.  Some are ripped open and the oysters spill out.  On consecutive afternoons we harvest two modest servings from these serendipitous strandings.  We take our second cache of these desirable comestibles over the road to share with Ty and Claire on the evening before we catch our return ferry.  Claire is cooking a guinea fowl stuffed with dried fruit and pate which has partially defrosted and should be used.  It is delicious.

DragonVale lives!

Nick and I are on a mission to walk more regularly.  To this end we took ourselves out into the cold sunshine, after Nick had rung the Sunday Service Church bells.  With a new walk to organise and lead for our village group in the autumn, we thought there is no time like the present to investigate possibilities.  At least it will give us some insight as to the ‘going’ after a sustained interval of wet weather.  We look for a walk of roughly four miles with terrain that is not overly steep or arduous.  With fond memories of walking down to Church Ope Cove and over the undulating cliff tops to the south, we drove to Easton on the Isle of Portland, parked and descended to the castle which towers over the small cove fringed with beach and fishermen’s huts.  The pebbles and cobbles on the shore are all smoothed and you find some wonderfully regular shapes.

By the castle there is an option to turn northeast and walk along under the Jurassic limestone undercliff.  We passed some  climbers scaling the relatively low cliffs.  Learners perhaps.  We continued along the track of the old railway line with wonderful views onto the lower clifftop and out to Weymouth Bay.  That lower clifftop is an undulating terrain of boulders, grazed shrubby grassland, relict spoil heaps of quarried limestone and a network of tracks.  It immediately struck me as a real world DragonVale complete with plant, water, air, earth and metal habitats!  Having walked along the undercliff we took a small track down onto the lower cliff tops and followed the tracks back to the steps leading down to Church Ope cove.  Nick spotted a single primrose plant in flower, nestling in a very sheltered patch of scree.

Currently I risk the ridicule of my spouse and sensible (sceptical) friends and family by participating in a breeding simulation game in which players display dragons in habitats in order to earn dragon cash. Dragon cash is a currency with no actual value.   There are eight basic elements: plant, earth, fire, cold, lightning, water, air and metal and these basic dragons can be bred to produce a specific set of hybrid dragons by being paired in the breeding cave or breeding island. There are a number of limited or rare dragons that are only available during a specific period of time, for example, the Ghost dragon for Halloween and the Reindeer dragon for the winter holidays. Limited dragons include the gemstone dragons, which correspond to the monthly birthstones.  (Currently I have tried numerous times to get the January gem, a Garnet dragon, by breeding an Obsidian and a Smoke dragon and I only have one day left!)

There are also a small number of Epic dragons, namely the Sun, Moon, Rainbow, Treasure, Seasonal and Olympus dragons. You feed the dragons with treats paid for in dragon cash which the dragons earn.  There are also gems which open up other possibilities.  That is the nub of the matter……….. although I would like to think that I am not a nub (Urbanspeak) at the game!

I enjoy DragonVale for two principal reasons: firstly three of my family members are playing it and we visit each other’s sites and gift each other gems each day.  The other reason is that the dragons themselves are so beautifully visualised with varying body shapes and ornament which are graceful and colourful.  They remind me of sea slugs- take a look at the gallery on my friend’s  Nudibranch website.